Oct. 17, 2022


This photo of me, sitting on a small section of wall and--looking back-- was taken just minutes after I completed my many-months-long journey of China's Great wall.

I finished The Wall in Shanhaiquan...where the Eastern section of The Great Wall ends at Bohai Bay. I had chosen to sit a moment--- reflect on my journey's end--- and attempt to control my emotions.

Nothing and No One could have prepared me for the shocking sadness I felt after successfully-completing My Dream of a Lifetime. My Heart couldn't accept the fact--My Lifetime Dream was over. I had no idea the journey's end would overwhelm me with such sadness.  At the time this photo was taken by a Chinese Photographer--I was much-more-sad than ---happy.

Yet-- despite my unexpected emotions at that moment---I realized --- how fortunate I was to be the first woman to travel--on foot--the length of The Great Wall of China. Yes, I'd held-tight to my dream since I first-saw it--then read about it-- in my fourth grade Geography Book.  Thanks to my fourth grade teacher, Ms. Moore, the Geography Book has been with me--through all these years.

I've lived an amazing life.  Regardless of my life's many complications, I've been blessed. Many people say "Never look back--only forward."  But, I disagree.

Looking back-- has helped me realize how far I've come to get where I am today. I marvel at my missteps; all my many falls; how often I stumbled; yet---through it all---I learned to stop counting the number of times I fell down and--- instead--- count the number of times I've picked myself up.

If we never look back, how can we appreciate our many accomplishments-- successes-- meaningful moments-- and the ability to triumph over life's endless challenges?!?!? There's no doubt about it. I couldn't have reached Today---without first-experiencing--- all-my-Yesterdays.

Thanks for your friendship.  Please continue to stay close.


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17.10 | 01:42

I miss being Facebook friends with you! Hope you are well and happy.

Tammy Brookover Jay

15.10 | 01:28

Love all of this. I'm so lucky to be your neighbor,

30.08 | 16:26

Sally, my friend, I love your writings and sometimes they make me cry and then smile. I love you as if I had known you all my life. God Bless you each and every day in all you do.

29.08 | 19:19

Lol, I loved reading this story! As a female that dated a couple men with Harleys, I totally understand and met Harley Guy myself, many times over!
I hope you get your 3wheels someday soon!

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